in these different schools literally this week i'm doing my first talk with five of the five seven claremont colleges in california and going to be zigzagging around to talk about this with students and what the answer that comes out from their mouths is what the most interested in. you know, for me is the next step of this conversation. and what do they need? what are they saying? how can they best support themselves through this time? there's too many of to generalize any of this and these conversations are what's going make the difference. and i can i hope to continue having them. well, it's time, you guys now, if you have any questions, you do you've seen the book or are about to pick it up. any questions for our distinguished author here tonight? don't be shy because the man skipped over age five to like 25. okay. i got a lot more to ask, but i want to give you guys opportunity if any other any any questions. don't be shy here. hi. i haven't so i have a question around the social piece, which i think is really interesting. i think personally for me that took me a while to kind of figure