>> announcer: from nbc news, this is "today," with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb. from studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. hi, everybody, it's try-day friday, it's may 24th and i'm grossing out hoda with all of my allergy and phlegm problems so, i apologize ahead of time. but if something squirts out, you've been duly warned. >> it's a little on the nasty side. >> the allergies are going crazy. i inhaled a bunch of pollen in central park. i wanted to take a brush --

>> and when you rub your eyes, your contact lenses come out. >> i was all in it. >> and hopefully you'll have some nice weather this weekend. you're going off to rehoboth. >> my sister who is in from dubai, my brother, his wife and their kids are going to my mom's place in delaware. >> and blake? >> no blake, blake is not feeling great. he can't come. >> you're leaving your sick child already? >> no, he can't take the car ride. it would be gross, picture. >> no, picture you staying home to take care of your child. >> and everybody comes up to see you because you've got a sick baby. >> no, we're all going to the beach. >> fine. >> there's the difference, ladies and gentlemen, between the two of us, you've seen it up front. >> so we heard that americans travel every memorial day. you don't travel, do you? >> i used to, we used to go to nantucket when we had a place there. now you know you're an old fart

when you don't want to go anywhere. you like to watch boats go by. you don't want to get on one. you like to see trains going by, you have no interest getting on one. you like to look at the sky and see the planes go and all you want to do is sit in your rocking chair and drink. that's all you want to do and you're happy. which i highly recommend dotage, i really do. >> what's dotage, doting around. >> is that a word? >> it's a word. >> i don't think it is. >> sara, will you google dotage. >> i'm googling it right now. >> a lot of people are getting married. >> it's going to be so beautiful. >> there's another woman getting married. her name is andrea faith bryant and she's a facebook friend of ours. she asked for a little help in finding a wedding song for her wedding. >> are you trying to sneak in another i-hoda? >> she wanted something upbeat. i had to pick the best love song

ever written. so i know it's not upbeat and bouncy, andrea, but -- >> it is "someone like you" by van morrison. >> someone exactly like you. ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ >> i've been traveling all around the world. >> is there not a -- >> waiting for you. ♪ someone like you >> there's something about this song. >> jerry is whipping it out. >> what? >> that's what jerry does. >> i haven't seen jerry whip it out once. >> you said whip it out. >> no i didn't. >> what are you, medicated? >> i said whip it up. >> neither is appropriate by the way. neither makes any sense. >> you know what also doesn't make any sense? diaper changing at starbucks.

stop it right now. >> we've been telling you about sometimes people in public out at restaurants, they change their children's diapers. >> because sometimes the bathrooms don't have a diaper-changing table. that happened to a couple in denver, they went into a starbucks in the bathroom. they put the child down on the chair, they started doing the changing and when the starbucks employee walks over and looks at them and throws a rag to them and says clean it up. the people are offended. >> the dad took umbrage. >> he took his coffee and turned it upside-down on the floor. >> the cops were called. because that's what happens. anyway, we don't think any charges were filed. but there is the question of what do you do when you want to change a child's diaper and you go into public rest rooms that don't have that. >> and you don't want to put your children on the floor. >> starbucks are very big on customer service, they're looking into the problem and are perhaps going to try to --

>> what would you do if you were in that situation? >> take your child to your car? >> leave the kid at home with a fever. like you always do. >> in a crate. >> no, just kidding. anyway, that's one of those things. >> it's a tough one. i think ultimately, always the child, whatever serves the child should be ultimately. i would have gone to the person and i said, do you, i think at starbucks, and said i desperately got to change my child's diaper. do you have something i can put on the floor. >> and they say no, i don't. >> then you do it anyway. >> our producer was talking about taking a chair with you into the bathroom stall and changing the child on the chair. so no one could see it. and then you take the nasty chair and turn it to the wall. >> neither of these are good things. you know what's annoying me? everything we've talked about so far. we have ben aaron, a guy who you're probably going to be seeing a little bit more around here.

he's "new york live" host of "life according to ben." >> or you may not know him at all. >> let's watch the tape. ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ >> one of my biggest set pieces in the world is when somebody is loud on the phone in the elevator, so right now i'm going to be that guy. hi, mommy, can you do me a favor? can you leave my razor out? i want to shave my armpits. oh, john, what's up? what are you doing, man? bring chips and dip, chips and dip. no, you're pookey. you're a pookey. give it to me, baby, yeah, yeah.

give it to me, baby, don't stop, don't stop. >> your face is like a cloud of desire. >> do you want to play football tomorrow? i'll bring the ball, you bring the foot. >> i'll be home like 5:00, like 5:30, i don't know. it depends on how much work i have, and then i'll shave your armpits. >> wow. >> wow. >> that is annoying. >> in light of memorial day, which i love, but it's one of the most annoying holidays. everybody travels. i wanted to see if i would get punched. i didn't get punched, which is amazing. >> most people seem to put up with your annoying habits. >> what did they say? did anyone say anything to you? >> they said nothing. >> even when they got off the elevator. >> it's like, it's new york and he's odd and strange, that's okay with us. >> how often are you going to annoy us? >> it's going to be a surprise i could sneak up on you at any time.

>> welcome to the zoo, ben, all the best to you. >> thank you. you want to stick around for this what time is it hoda? >> it's time for her friday funnies. >> three ladies go out for girls' night out. they're having a great time, excuse me. they're drinking, they're dancing, they're partying like crazy. on the way home in the car, two of the girls say they have to go to the bathroom. so they're passing a cemetery and the driver stops the car for them in front of the cemetery and tells the girls, go in the cemetery, okay? nobody's there, whoever is there ain't going to mind. after much protesting from the girls, they do. as they are relieving themselves, one girl asks the other, what are we going to use for -- it's from the facebook fans. >> i'm drinking. >> what are you going to use for -- toilet paper and one girl says, i'm going to use my underwear. >> this is never going to end. >> the other girl says no way and she rip as red ribbon off a floral arrangement nearby and uses that.

the next day their husbands meet on the street and one says to the other, the girls' night out has got to stop. my wife came home last night with no underwear. and the other guy said that's not so bad, my wife came home with a sticker on her butt that says, we will never forget you. >> all right. kids, it's time for our bobbie's buzz! >> wow, wow, hoda! >> are we ready for this? >> all right. >> bye, ben! >> gotta go. >> so is memorial day weekend and i was inspired. and some of the cool finds i've come across, united scents of america. two girls teemed up in the fragrance industry to create a scent for your state. so there are different states, ten so far, they're going to be rolling out. i stopped to think, what does your state smell like. well, new york -- >> it depends where you are.

>> new york is the big apple. >> you like florida? >> i like california, too. >> and so another -- >> florida is good. >> another find that is clever, memorial day weekend. check out these, these are not just bangles. they are bottle-opener bangles. >> no way! >> ooh-la-la -- >> isn't that so cute? >> this wine company makes their wine with bottle cap the like beer. >> as opposed to corks. >> so you can just pop over your wine. >> very clever. >> so classy. >> these are by breezy new york. and last but not least with all the name art that i know you hate so much. >> i do, i do. >> there's a new trend coming up. it's minimalism and white nails like mine, you'll see right here with a ton of other companies coming out with white. the new, cool stark thing to do. >> thank you. >> are you excited? >> i'm so excited. >> one week from today, missy!

>> i can't believe you're letting me bring like 100 people to your house. >> we'll cut that down a little. >> we turn it over to our favorite girl -- >> sara. >> time for today's johnson's baby announcement when we celebrate new moms and their adorable new additions to their families. first up, meet adorable deegan, six pounds, 12.5 ounces came into the world on april 16th. his parents give some words of wisdom to love your baby unconditionally and everything else will fall a into place. next up, sweet little waverly, in hinton, iowa, on march 23rd, joins a loving family of so many generations that she's actually a great great granddaughter. our third today's johnson's baby of the week is cullen born on april 8th in far go, north dakota. he's welcomed into the world by brother ian. enjoy snuggling while you can,

because they grow up way too fast. if you want a chance for your baby to appear in today's johnson's baby of the week. go to klgandhoda.com for details. we'll have advice on how to raise a decent kid in an indecent world. our real moms weigh in on the movies to watch when you cuddle up with your kids this weekend. but first, these messages.

raising kids today is a whole different ball game than it used to be before reality tv, provocative ads and barely dressed pop stars. >> yeah. indecent behavior has become the new normal. who do you keep your kids from growing up too fast? here's advice for raising decent children in an indecent world. our family therapist, dale atkins and mommy blogger, jenny, the creator of the suburbanjungle.com.

wasn't that polite of me? >> you're perfect, very polite. >> you know the story i did, a book about finding for 100 children up here on the upper east side in new york and out of 100 children, one child said thank you. that, that is unbelievable. i was stunned. >> well that has to do with modeling and it also has to do with expectations. i think that if children see their parents be kind and be gracious, they're much more likely to take that on. and also if they're reminded when they're not, without being, without admonishing them, kind of tell them, when you get something or someone does something for you, you say thank you. >> you used to be able to protect your kids from certain things. it seems like here, if you turn a commercial on or any kind of tv show, there's very little family programming or you see a big ad when you're walking down the street and your child asks a question, they're being inundated from everywhere, aren't they?

>> they really are. and the thing that kills me is you can't unsee something. you're explaining things that you never thought you'd be explaining to you know kids at the ages that they're at. >> how old are you kids? >> mine are eight and 11. >> are you running into that? >> that is prime time for that. >> it really is. >> every kid wants to be with the older kids who are hipper. every little girl wants to pull her skirt up a little higher because the bigger girls are doing that and wear makeup and all that stuff. but it's beyond that stuff that we all grew up with. >> it's beyond sexualization of our children, isn't it? >> there's absolutely a sexualization of our children. and there's a sexualization of our society. i think if the parents are calmer and know where they are and know what's important to them, then no matter what they see or whatever comes flying at them, they'll be able to have a conversation, without taking it to the limit. >> let's play a little game, we're going to give you something that let's say your children saw this image and how you would explain this to them. let's start off with the naked

cow kiloliter girl. it's something that happens to be in new york city. you're wandering by and there happens to be a naked cowboy. if your child walks by and says, mommy, what's the right thing to say in this situation? >> i think the first thing i would say is that's how you catch a cold. and then, from there, i think it's just you know, this is someone trying to get attention in all the wrong ways. and at the ages that my kids are at, you can say that's what crazy looks like and you don't need to go down that road to get attention, they're giving it to her for the wrong reasons. >> i think that's really wonderful. i think one of the things that jenny is pointing out, is number one you can use humor. which gives awe moment to catch your own breath and see where you want to go. and the other thing is let's put it in the context of our family. that's not the way you want to get attention, there are other ways we want to pay attention to each other. >> here's something that was on betty white's "off their rockers" that kind of seems like a family show. let's listen and see how you

would react. >> i'm wonderful word, a sexy word, orgasm. if you had to describe that moment, how would you describe that moment? i've got my notes. >> i'm speechless. >> okay. so the big o. you hear that. >> say poughkeepsie. they won't understand what you mean. >> i say one of the things, if you can kind of deflect or can you say, you know, this is really something that we're going to talk about at another time, but basically what it is, is -- depending on the age of the child. you don't have to describe an orgasm to a 4-year-old. >> you hear a word like that. >> and so now, children sitting at home are hearing it from us as well. >> we just said it again. >> how about, we say right and wrong? it's kind of simple. >> well i think that's a very important thing to do. but you have to know what's right and wrong within yourself. and if you see that all of this is on the media all the time then your feeling is i have to kind of get right in there and

say you know what, that's more adult. >> we don't teach the basics, say please, say thank you, that's wrong, that's not nice. say i'm sorry. we don't, we don't and it's all your fault. >> i want to thank you. and bless you and thank you. >> all right. come on, get happy. >> our girl sara has the hottest free apps, to make traveling this weekend a whole lot easier. >> right after this. and do you know your... blood type? a or b positive?? have you eaten today? i had some lebanese food for lunch. i love the lebanese. i... i'm not sure. enough of the formalities... lets get started shall we? jimmy how happy are folks who save hundreds of dollars switching to geico? happier than dracula volunteering at a blood drive. we have cookies... get happy. get geico. fifteen minutes could save you fifteen percent or more. yeah... try new alka seltzer fruit chews.

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and it's time to get appy with sara, when our girl digs up cool apps and websites that you may not know about. >> we heard you found some free apps to help people with summer travel. >> we love the free ones it comes in handy with memorial day around the corner. first up, an app called hit monk. an app that you can search and book flights and hotels. ha makes this different when you look at it. it calculate the flights, not just by price, but something

called the agony factor. it takes into consideration layovers, wi-fi, how long the flight is, and then you can also sort the traditional, if you want, you can sort it by price, departure link. >> that says it all. >> there's the ecstasy factor with hotels, it sorts user reviews, stars, amenities. can you sort by the traditional ones. it has a heat map, can you pick what you're looking for. if you want to be in an area of high tourism or shopping. can you select that and it will show in the red areas, a weather map where it's the most dense. >> i sort of get it. cool. the next one is called ways. the social gps navigation map. you'll see all of these little signals. a lot of apps out there have the maps, google maps, everything else, this is generated by users, minute to minute. you can report an accident, see what it is. can you see that there's tied up traffic. >> a complete standstill. >> thank you. >> another one.

how to drop ten pounds by memorial day. >> yes and our real moms talk about movies.

we are back on this try-day friday, with today's reel moms, here to review some of the hottest movies in theaters and dvd that you'll want to check out this weekend. >> today's movie critics are mother of two, jessica, who happens to be "entertainment weekly" senior writer and soon-to-be radio host. and robin is a lifestyle expert and a brand new mom and marketing expert nichelle pace, the mother of two and founder for stylemom.com. >> let's start with our first movie, an animated film called "epic" do we love or not like. >> it's totally epic! we totally love, about a teenager that goes back home to

live with her dad and her dad is a cooky scientist who thinks there's another species of creatures living in the forest and she doesn't believe it until she gets shrunk. >> is it one the parents will like? >> yes. >> you have some funny characters and it was just an easy movie to watch. it was a great day out for me. >> i read a couple of reviews that were not complimentary at all. >> it tells stories of the ecology and the environment and beyonce is in it, steven tyler. >> very cute and fun. >> let's move on, "star trek: into the darkness." >> tell us the truth. >> if you're a star trek fan you're definitely going to like it. there's a major "star trek" mythology baddie in this movie. the kirk and spock, they're on the enterprise, they have to come back home because there's been a terrorist act. there's always an issue.

but it's more emo "star trek." >> and there's a big brouhaha because a lot of the female characters are naked or walking around in our underwear. we personally didn't think it was a big deal. i remember when princess leia was chained. by jabba the hut? >> what's the age range. >> maybe not under ten. i did cringe a little bit with the underwear scene. but at the same time i was thinking -- god i really liked her underwear and i'm a little biased, because i was named after the original character, nichelle nichols from the movie. so i'm -- >> well that review is all over the board. >> let's go to a rental. "the impossibles." >> loved it. >> that's the one with naomi watts. >> based on a family, what happens to a family during the 2004 tsunami in asia.

it's an incredibly difficult movie to watch. there's a lot of death and orphans. >> there were fantasy animations this is the one where you go to bed and you're like holy cow this could be my family. >> she was nominated for an academy award. >> given the current state of affairs and all the events and mother nature now. >> it's a story which is really interesting. >> we had the young boy on, remember? he was great. >> he was great. >> all right. let's move on to "beautiful creatures" a sort of vampire rip-off? >> a vampire movie based on the "twilight" series. not a vampire, she's a witch. >> jeremy irons is in it. and emma thompson. >> that's what holds the script together. >> you love that sort of -- >> it's no "citizen kane" but "twilight" wasn't, either.

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it's time for our special series, "how to drop ten pounds by memorial day." hopefully we helped you get the beach body you've always wanted. >> we're down to the wire, but don't give up now. if you're hitting the road this weekend, you may be hitting a few fast food joints along the way. they're everywhere. our diet and nutrition editor madeline fernstrom is here with great options. >> they have stuff they never had before at fast food restaurants. >> it's what you're going to be choosing. always downsize, or worst comes to worst, get a kid's meal.

>> let's start with breakfast. >> dunkin' doe donuts have been a leader in this field of having egg white flat bread and skinny bread and wake-up wrap, it's about 150. >> i love that. i had it a couple of weeks ago. >> these are delicious. >> even mcdonald's has their regular breakfast sandwiches, now you can get them with egg whites, you're going to be around 200 or 300 calories. you can go for skim milk latte. this is a liquid that's going to be good for you. you can have your coffee, two glasses of milk and it will be good. >> are we hitting lunchtime. >> lunchtime. dinner time. you'll want to mix and match. stay away from all of their meals, except for kids' meals. soming of these kid's meals are for a adult as well. one big innovation has been at mcdonald's, that's downsized the french fries even more and put apple slices. this is how a kid's meal comes. it's great for adults along with a bottle of water. >> the only time i've seen apples at mcdonald's was in this there apple pie.

>> downsize again, you can go for chicken. like at wendy's you can get chili and a potato. and speak up. tell them vegetables, no cheese. you don't have to have it the way that it's prepared. you can personalize it and ask for extra lettuce and wrap your whole burger in some lettuce or take off part of the bun and use it for the top. chicken strips the same thing. you want to avoid crispy. that means fried. but sometimes don't want a baked chicken breast and small amounts will be good and sometimes you can skip the fries altogether and get the crispiness along with apples. >> a lot of people like sandwiches. if you go to subway for example, ask them to scoop out the doughy part of the bread, that will be between 400 calories. under 600 calories for a lunch or dinner. a smart wrap, grilled chicken. take off part of the bread and the cute little baby subway meal

for kids, that's a little three-inch sub with apples and low-fat milk. it's great for adults and really filling. >> people talk about how they lose weight at subway. >> chipotle will have the burrito bowls and you want to make sure you just skip all the fried stuff. use some lean toppings. >> they grill most of that. >> and that's important. so skip sour cream and added toppings, you're choosing. now you have so many options. and you're still going to be around 400 to 500 calories. >> okay, madeline. >> this is more the mix and match if you're someplace like taco bell. all of these are around 150 calories. take two. if you get the taco salad, skip the fried bowl. >> the bowl is so delicious. >> i know. don't eat it. >> anything that's crispy like that, you pay for. >> pizza, if you have one slice of pizza. this is a serving for one. thin crust or a single-serving pizza. go half with someone else and if you want to snack you can get good things.

a small latte. new wraps now that are just snack wraps. >> that looks like, like a chicken -- >> this is chicken and cranberries and it has fewer calories than a plain salad. or a lot of smoothies that can be loaded with calories. but this is under 200 calories. and little baby things from wendy's or mcdonald's, little parfaits. >> you are so good. >> you got us to memorial day, madeline, what a woman. do you have any tips on how you're dropping 10 pounds by memorial day? send your tips to klgandhoda.com. >> and do you have a beauty problem you're too embarrassed to admit? >> it's probably more common that you can imagine. we have solutions! >> good morning to you. with your seven-day forecast.

waez kick off the memorial day holiday weekend, it's going to be cloudy, chilly and cool up in the northwest east. rain showers and maybe even snow showers in the parts of new york state and other new england states. watch for down trees and perhaps power irns. across the southeast, nice weekend. rain showers, up 'into the or northern plains. minneapolis at 60, plant near 80 degrees. but take a look at the upper temperatures into the northeast. low 50s in boston, low to 60s around san francisco. on sunday, we've got some rain showers you up in the pacific northwest and also the northeast. 83 though for atlanta. 81 in kansas city. 7 r 87 in denver.

memorial day, we will have showers and storms out in the parts of midwest, iowa, 83 kansas city. on tuesday rain showers and storlz. once again extending around minneapolis and chicago, and down into areas like denver and albuquerque as well. wednesday, this is a day where we could see severe weather in the parts of the plains states. we'll be watching that across the west coast. phoenix at 88. 71 for salt lake city. by next thursday things are dry with temperatures in '86 in new york and 90 in washington, d.c. "wake up with al" at 5:30 a.m. hey, have you guys heard about probiotics?

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most of you have embarrassing beauty problems.

everyone except me, actually does. it's like dark circles under your eyes, hair where you don't particularly want and nothing seems to help, does it? >> until now, because we've got the products to help you fix all your beauty issues for a shameless summer. molly is the beauty director at "women's health" magazine. you're going to tackle all of our embarrassing problems? >> i'll do my best. >> sweaty armpits, go. >> nothing sexy about it. if this is your issue, i recommend a clinical-strength deodorant. secret makes a great one. it's waterproof. >> meaning it will stay on even if you go into the pool or take a shower. it contains 20% aluminum zirconium. it's formulated to be used at night. you put it on when your body is on its most natural temperature to form a strong barrier against sweat. and in the morning you can shower, you can wash, it's not coming off.

but in the morning you may want to add a new layer, it will protect. >> so ashy skin. please, get it off. >> ashy skin is mainly a problem for darker skin tones, making them have a gray tint. but for lighter skin tones it affects the thicker skin areas, elbows, knees, ankles. exfoliate in the shower. use it on dry skin. when you get out, you want to look for a moisturizer that contains glycerin. an amazing humectant. and these from jurgen's contain a great spl. in the summertime it's jergen's glow. >> remember the scrubs i do? you've been bleeding. >> but i like it. >> how do you remove just unruly hairs on your face? >> because my friend wants to know. >> so those chin hairs. this is your problem, then i would recommend an at-home wax

kit. sally hansen makes one called ouch relief. for face or body. normally with wax, it's the pain fact that are deter women from doing something like this, they're genius that they put in a pretreatment that contains benzocaine. it will numb it. >> you've got to grow it out far enough to let it be waxed. and nobody wants to walk around like that. >> but then you're free for four weeks. >> but then you got to grow it out again. you can't go to weddings. >> you have to stay in your house, you're a shut-in. >> what's next? >> and acne. bacne. the good news is you can use treatment products you would normally use for your face, particularly something with salicylic acid. if you're using wipes you can use it on your back. the best way to do it is in the shower, with salicylic acid body wash. by neutrogena, a great one to

use. >> let's get to morgan. >> morgan claims she has an issue with under eye puffiness or dark circles, how do you get rid of it. >> it's genetics, lack of sleep. it's allergies. >> she doesn't have any of that stuff. >> she's perfect. >> you want to look for a product that contains caffeine. that will stimulate the blood flow and prevent it from pooling under the eyes. >> origins ginseng has a great product with caffeine, and then for concealing, you need a product that's going to cover in the daytime. there's one from lancome. we used it on morgan. one eye without, one eye with. you can see the difference, they have microparticles. >> that illuminate. >> thank you so much. >> thank you so much. all right. all in the sauce.

and we're not talking drinks. we're talking about barbeque sauce. we're going to break out the shrimp and mango on "today."

today's kitchen is brought to you by bush's country style baked beans. still made from our secret family recipe. it is time to take you into today's kitchen. whether you've got a grill or not, chances are you will be barbequing somewhere this summer. >> what better way to do it than with delicious sauces, steaks and shrimp. craig is the executive chef at studio at montage at laguna beach.

>> this is an ambrosia cup, with a little bit of tequila, campari. >> cheers. >> thank you, ladies. >> memorial day and a little tequila. mary jo latina, you'll drink a little tequila. >> he's an understanding one, it's your fourth anniversary. >> thank you. >> let's talk about some grilling things, i like to do a little barbeque sauce that's sweet and sour, so you probably have some of this stuff at home this has a little mango marmalade. i put in a little soy sauce. to make it sour. little bit of lime juice and then i spice it up with my favorite, habanero. all you have to do is put it together like this. mix it up. you don't have to cook and you probably have this stuff in your pantry right now. >> the mango chutney, i don't know. >> you flip over your shrimp. if you want to season this, a little oil, salt. >> do you marinate it or put it

on top? >> i put it on like this and brush it on so it's important the last five minutes of cooking or well let's say two or three minutes, you brush it on because barbeque sauces are sweet and sour and they burn. unlike an marinate, you want them to go on the end of the cooking, not the beginning. >> is this it right here? >> that's it. you can put some of the sauce in the middle and dip it, if you like. >> thank you. honey. >> let's move on to this. >> i've got my steak cooking here i'm going to flip it over. >> that's good. >> that is delicious. >> this is a cooked bauer cue sauce, sweet and sour, we start out with pineapple juice and some water. i put some honey. this one has ketchup like a traditional barbeque sauce has and worcestershire. and then to give it a little bit of sour.

and this has the red wine vinegar and the jalapeno. >> again, right? >> so again, the sweet and sour sauce that cooks for about 10, 15 minutes, reduces by half. once it's done, i take the jalapeno out if you don't want it too spicy. puree it and you have it ready to go like this. >> you puree it then? >> here's my sweet and sour barbeque sauce. >> what are you putting it on? >> once the steak is cooked five to six minutes on each side. we put it on like this. let it glaze and it gets this carmelized, cut it. >> this looks delicious. >> i'm going to serve it with this panzanella salad. a salad to keep you slim in the summer. >> thank you very much. happy anniversary, next week, chloe kardashian. and nick cannon from "america's got talent." and undergarment to keep you cool for the summer. good-bye, people, good-bye! >> have a great weekend,

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